When you are heard and really seen by someone, it helps change the feelings running through you. I’ve learned through the years that what I write about or share isn’t always easily digestible. Whether you relate or could care less, has been something I think of all the time. I think about it because I want to be believed and seen because no matter how much time has gone by it will be part of my story. I recently watched a movie that sent all those shock waves again through my system. The ending was the hardest for me. Women finally having the courage to break their silence and let down that veil they have hidden behind for years, in fear they too would not be believed or heard. It hit me especially hard when one of the women speaking was my age. I have written and I have shared. I have treaded lightly with my words in order not to hurt others involved. It’s hard to be triggered and have to work through those moments and still want to hide that part of you because you have worked really hard at the person you have become. You can heal and continue to heal and still be triggered. You can watch a movie or hear a song and still be triggered. Does it make you an unhealed individual and someone stuck in the past when someone makes a comment you should be over this by now? Now you know that is victim blaming on their part. Do not believe that. And that is triggering to hear from others. I wish I had the magical written paragraph to make all the pain go away for those who have experienced any pain or trauma or abuse in their lives, but sadly I don’t. What I give back with is letting anyone know they are not alone. I hear you and will see you through triggers and emotions surrounding what happened to you. I made that promise to myself many years ago that I would help in any way I could. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month and if you know anyone experiencing this in any form, please allow them to be heard and seen by you. Thank you.
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